Tipping and the Bitter Waitress

20PercentAnd now, it’s time for something completely different

I drop by Kottke.org from time to time. I envy the fact that he was able to quit his day job and blog full time, supported by his readership.

The subject of tipping came up recently and he referred to the website, Bitter Waitress.com. While I tend to agree with his disdain for posting names taken from credit cards, his idea of what constitutes a standard tip is medieval at best.

15% (on the pre-tax amount, I might add) is still the industry standard, no matter how much it sucks…

The shitty Shitty Tipper database (kottke.org

Time to get out from behind the computer, and get into the real world Kottke. It’s 20% today, and that’s just for showing up!

The website is a hoot, but be forewarned. Rated “R” for language.

Want to buy the T Shirt?

5 Responses to “Tipping and the Bitter Waitress”

  1. Max Says:

    I’ve never really understood the restaurant industry.
    Why should we as customers pay extra for a person just doing their job? The owner gets by with paying slave wages to their employees and the customer makes up the difference. Can you imagine other industries opperating the same way? The school board pays me $3.00 an hour and then my students make up the difference? Pay the servers a fair wage and build the cost into the price of the product. If the servers don’t do their job replace them.

  2. OldGeezer Says:

    What about tipping baggage handlers at airports, or ship personnel while on a cruise, or barbers and hairdressers, or coat check attendants, or golf caddies, or ministers at weddings, or furniture & appliance delivery persons, or blackjack dealers, or…?

    They too are just doing their job.

    The question here is not why one tips in certain circumstances, but rather how much.

  3. Max Says:

    OK. Then I suggest zero. Where did tipping come from anyway?
    TIP means “to improve service”, right? Why should I pay more to encourage a person to do their job the way they should. Would you have expected a little something extra to do a better job of representing a client? This whole system smacks of Russia or Mexico or someplace where bribes get things done.

  4. Tom Says:

    I have to agree with Max. Tipping is totally out of control. Every year we even receive (insincere) greeting cards from the paperboy and the garbage haulers, which is nothing other than a request to give them a tip. For what? For just doing what they get paid to do anyway.
    One time I actually had a waitres follow me to the door of the restaurant because she was not given the percentage she thought she deserved! And what is this 20% stuff? Who came up with that? On a cruise I took one time, the cruise lines tried to do you the big favor of just adding the tip onto the overall cost of the cruise. I dont buy that sort of thing. A tip is for ME to decide to give, both as to who and as to the amount, not some employer who is just trying to pass on the cost of his employees to the customers. And the sad part is, it has just become automatic, regardless of the level of service.

  5. OldGeezer Says:

    Interesting article in today’s WSJ. Tim Zagat, founder of the Zagat restaurant guides was quoted as saying:

    “It has been the consistent experience of most Americans that a tip means ‘to improve performance,’ and most people believe it does have an impact on the service they get,” says Zagat, who points to a recent online poll in which 94% of 1,000 respondents said they preferred to determine their own tips.

    “They like to be able to make a big gesture when they’ve had a great meal,” he adds. And although “it’s very rare to stiff the waiter, people do go down to 10% or 15% when they’re miffed.”

    (Emphasis supplied)

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